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Thursday, July 08, 2010


A very interesting topic that was discussed over morning briefing today.

a wedding event scheduled in the later part of the year was called off (that means i dun have to standby to be a waitress too = P, it was an outside catering ) okie back to the topic.... well that's not the main issue as that happens alot when i was in catering sales.

indeed, if the couple is not suitable for each other... it would be better to call off the wedding then to go through it. Here comes the interesting part, one of the colleague shared that she had a girlfriend who was dating a man for 10 years. They have bought the flat, furniture, signed up for wedding banquet etc and one month prior to the wedding she called it off... well my colleague says that the girlfriends find that after 10 years everything would still be the same even after the marriage so there isn't a need and decided to break off....now that's the puzzling part for me...

i can understand that perhaps nuthin major would change after 10 years of dating but was there a need to break off? and my colleague says there wasn;t any 3rd party..... that's indeed strange. was she expecting a marriage to last for only 10 or 20 years? if she was expecting excitement... wouldn't that has dawn on her much earlier and not only when all the nitty gritty details are settled?

Well i guess everyone has a different stand in this viewpoint of "love"

once again, to me.... love isn't complicated ... but the people involved makes it complicated.
call me idealistic or whatsoever.... to me, a marriage is to last for a lifetime and most importantly... it must be with the right person.

9:42 AM

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